Show Us Your Life

Kelly's Korner is hosting a new segment on her blog called: Show Us Your Life and I jumped right on board to show off my wedding dress! I posted about finding my dress back in May so I'm not going to bore my few followers with an entirely new post about an old topic but in case you missed it, you can find my wedding gown here.

In other news: Happy Friday! Boo and I have no real plans to speak of so I (think) I'm looking forward to a relaxed weekend of cleaning and spending time with Bennyboo.
The weather in Cincinnati has been Cincinnasty- rainy and much cooler than normal. I don't think Saturday is going to be much of an exception but if either weekend day is nice - I plan to lounge at the pool.

Anyhow, off to teach an Activities Programming Class.

L8ter Babes!

Miss Amber Lane

Sleepy Girl

Somewhere like this is where I need to be right now.

Le sigh. Looks like Heaven.

Last night Emily and I went to a benefit for a guy that went to the same high school as me, and Emily dated briefly in college. He had a brain anurism a few weeks ago and passed away leaving a small son - the money from the benefit will go to help support him. It was a great turn out- very well attended. We stayed there long enough for a drink and to share our regret before feeling too claustrophobic and deciding to reconvine at another local establishment for additional cocktails.

Emily was drowning her sorrows in glasses of Chardonnay and I was keeping her company with Vodka Cranberries. I had about 3 but that was enough to make me giddy. I slept until 10:30 so you would think I would be well rested.

Wrong. I'm super groggy. Not hungover, just blah. I didn't come in to work today until 12:30 but I have to be here until 9:30 so I have a feeling this day is just going to drag.

In other news....

I did call the police yesterday to report the message. A "log" was made about my complaint but I was pretty much informed that without knowing who it is, there isn't any action that can be taken.

Pretty much my only option is changing my cell phone number.

If the calls continue I probably will for now I'm just going to ride it out.

Well, for now I'm going to run. Its almost time for social hour here and I need to go be sure that everything is going as planned.

Ciao Bellas!

Miss Amber Lane

The Most Disturbing Message EVER

You may recall that awhile back I wrote a post detailing the annonymous hang-up calls I was receiving late at night several times a week.

In that post I let you all know that I pretty much figured that the calls were coming from my ex du jour so though I was annoyed, I wasn't really scared. Gradually the calls tapered off and I kind of forgot about it.

Fast forward to Sunday early,early in the am whilst Bennyboo, Emily and I were sobering up at our local IHop - I got a call from a private number, I answered, they hung up, the end.

I thought oh no here we go again.

Here we go again is right. I woke up this morning and went downstairs to retreive my phone from the charger and saw 4 missed calls from a private number and one message.

Now this isn't completely out of the ordinary, from time to time there would be a message with only background noise so I didn't expect to hear much when I listened to the message while brushing my teeth.

Imagine my surprise when I heard a girl moan softly in the background....

Are they ....... ?

Another moan, then steadier and the unmistakable sound of bodies slapping together.

Yep, you guessed it.

Someone left a message on my cell phone of them having sex!

WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?!?!

The message lasted about a minute and I mostly could only make out the sound of a girl..uhm...enjoying herself. Every now and then I heard a male sound but not enough to distinguish if this one in fact the infamous ex.

NOW I'm truly disturbed.

That is not ok.

I've been with Ben for 5.5 years- I could care less that my ex is in relationships with other girls and screwing their brains out- the disturbing part is that if it is him and he's calling me leaving messages like that - something is seriously wrong in his head.

Then that makes me worry- is he really just wanting to screw with my head or would his intentions be more malicious if given the opportunity?

Creepy.

I'm not going to the police yet. I've saved the message and if I get even one more- I'm going to the police and filing a report. This is ridiculous!

Its pretty disgusting if it is him- but at least he would be someone with a motive an ex boyfriend who I had a turbulant relationship with- but if its not him then I have an annoymous stalker.

Ugh I'm not sure what's worse!!!!

What should I do? Am I doing the right thing in not reporting it yet or should I go to the police tonight?

Help!

Miss Amber Lane